Looking for simple ideas on how to mix and match plates without overthinking it? Here are my best plate-matching tips.

I still remember when I found my first blue and white dish.

I was shopping at a yard sale and underneath a stack of ordinary white plates, I saw a hint of blue and white. I don’t remember the pattern or the style or the size, I just remember that in that moment?

I fell in love.

It was as if me and my yard sale shopping self found our people.

I never looked back.

All these yard sale years later, I have a STASH of blue and white everything. Bowls and plates and mini bowls and candlesticks and pitchers and serving pieces.

But how do you put them all together?

How do you mix and match so it looks like you planned it?

No worries.

Come sit by me.

Here are my best tips for mixing and matching patterns on your dining table.

// table runner // blue and white plates //

1. Start with a basic color palette

I’m all about blue and white.

But that’s only one color combination on the color palette spectrum. Just like a box of 64 crayons, there are a zillion colors that want to be friends. I typically combine two colors, but you could add in three or four different colors

Here are some of my favorite dish color combinations:

  • blush and gold
  • gold and white
  • coral and blue
  • yellow and blue
  • red and white (I use this at Christmas)
  • black and white
  • cream and white

// blue and white plates // patterned plates (similar) //

2. Make sure you have a plain neutral

I can’t stress this enough.

So many times when we are mixing and matching plates we think pattern, pattern, pattern. But truth?

You need a plain colored plate to make the patterns pop.

For example, I found this set of plain diner plates on Amazon and I use it all the time to layer in other more glamorous plates.

It gives the eye a place to rest.

(total aside: this is so true of mixing and matching pillows, too.)

// blue and white plates // patterned plates (similar) //

3. Don’t worry if the colors are exactly the same

This is for all the overthinkers out there.

See these two plates? They are slightly different colors and when I layer them you can tell.

There are a zillion colors of blue and white and if you are buying them at yard sales like me? It’s almost impossible to have the exact same blue.

And here’s the thing.


If every blue and every white matches up perfectly? Guess what happens? It’s boring and it looks too matchy matchy. You want your plates (and your table settings) to look like you have collected them over the years.

And the best way to get that look?

Mix in slightly different colors of your chosen color palette.

// table runner // blue and white plates // patterned plates (similar) //

4. Try this reverse tip

One of my best plate-matching tips is to reverse the colors.

For example, you have some plates that are mostly blue with a little white. And then you have some plates that are mostly white with a little blue.

It looks so pretty when you combine them.

Take out all your dishes in a certain colorway and see if you can reverse-match them.

It looks so pretty when the plates are layered on the table.

// blue and white plates // patterned plates (similar) //

5. Look for unusual pieces you can layer into the table setting

The best place to find pieces like this?

Yard sales.

Estate sales.

Your grandmother’s attic.

I found these tiny little blue finger bowls at a yard sale and knew they needed to come home with me. In amazing news, the dishmaker people have invented so many amazing side dishes that are used for the most unusual things. There are butter plate and bread plates and milk pitchers and fruit bowls and demitasse cups and gravy boats and soup tureens.

Most people never use them. That’s why they are easier to find at yard sales. 🙂

6. Don’t worry if you don’t have enough place settings

Do NOT stress about having enough place settings for eight people or 10 people.

You never know how many people are going to show up for dinner.

That’s why sticking to a colorway is so important. If you are going to go with mismatched plates here are a few of my best tips:

  1. You should either have all the plates mismatched or have some sort of pattern to your table setting.
  2. For example, if you have four of the same kind plate, then space those evenly and layer in mismatched pieces.
  3. If you are mismatching plates, it’s a good idea to have them all the same size.
  4. With reverse matching, you can get eight place settings out of a set of four of each kind, just reverse the patterns.

7. Chargers

It’s a good idea to invest in a neutral charger set of 12.

You want to find something that will go with everything, like silver or gold or wicker.

Then you can just change out the dishes and completely change the look of your table.

I like a patterned runner with chargers instead of placemats, but sometimes I’ve created tables with really unusual placemats that I’ve made myself with a monogram or cut out of fabric and frayed the edges.

// dining room rug // blue and white striped chairs //

// table runner // blue and white planters //

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// dining room rug // blue and white striped chairs //

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Here’s one of the most recent tables I set.

You can see that none of the dishes really match.

There are some random pieces on the table.

Even the silverware is a little mismatched.

But yet?

It all works.

The most important tip I can give you?

Have fun.


Set a table with creativity.

Set a table with laughter.

Set a table for friends and family to make them feel welcome.

Set a table with love.

And just between us?

It will be the most beautiful table you’ve ever seen. 🙂

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  1. Image for Kris Kris

    Very pretty! Meanwhile, I'm trying to figure out different (inexpensive!) ways to mix up my table and chairs to make them look coordinated, but not matching. I have a set that we bought used in our early days of marriage and I'm tiring of it, but when I price new dining area seating (we don't have a separate dining room), all I can think about is how the cost would pay for a good chunk of my kid's college fund. Just in case you needed ideas for future posts ....

  2. Image for Diana Diana

    I have many older patterns match but they do blend nicely. I love every thing old so it works, but you do have to hand wash them.

  3. Image for Sherry Duff Sherry Duff

    And you can mix so many colors in with the blue and white…green, yellow, pink, etc. Using a colored napkin can a add a fun pop of color!

  4. Image for Sheila Anderson Sheila Anderson

    The plates don't have to go on the table. Many of my blue and white plates are hanging on my bedroom walls. They are beautiful decorations, and not one of them is the same.

  5. Image for Carla Carla

    Oh, I love your tips about mixing up the blue and white dishes. I've always stumbled when the pieces didn't match--now, I know what to do! Beautiful table!!

  6. Image for Dianne Miley Dianne Miley

    Love this! You are speaking my language! I fell in love with blue & white when I was 15. We were moving and my mom had this box of old dishes in the attic that she was going to sell at a YARD SALE! I stopped her and asked if I could have them. What does a 15 year old want with old dishes? I started a hope chest that day. In the midst of moving. And never looked back. Now I have an entire collection of mis-matched blue & white dishes that I love and use daily. I also decorate with blue & white. I think we’re kindred spirits, Kari Anne. 😁

  7. Image for Lyn Lyn

    These photos of you are some of the very best I've seen. Especially the one where you are holding the two flat plates. They are keepers.

  8. Image for Heather Heather

    I’m gearing up for the holidays and this helps. The only place you didn’t list where to find was between 5 and 6 and I loved the golden wooden pedestals Details please please

  9. Image for Lana guill Lana guill

    Everything is so beautiful! I could watch you all day! I wish you still lived here so you could help me! Enjoy your day! 💖

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